tonight, I was the ultimate GFE. Just sayin. Five freaking hours. Whew.
I did end up changing my name today along with my new number… also changed around my pictures (different default, one new one, etc.) I love this new persona I have going on! It’s attracting a lot of new callers :D
I have a photo shoot on Thursday so I’m pretty excited… After that, I should have enough photos of me in different outfits to last me a looong while.
Aside from last night, this week is starting out amazingly well!
Personally, I do 90 minutes because that gives enough time to get them verified and for me to get ready. Plus, the people who are serious will be more accepting of the time gap.
Sometimes, I am lenient for guys who have a busy schedule.
Someone who gives you his full name could be a killer.
A well known CEO could be a rapist. You just never know.
I’ve been asked how I screen (and eventually I’ll stop being lazy and make a FAQ page for aspiring escorts) so here it is:
What I do is simple. I ask them their name (I don’t typically ask for a full name) and for at least one reference to another girl that they’ve seen recently.
I think getting verification from another working girl (or agency) is the best screening tool because we escorts have to look out for each other! A caller could give you all of his info down to his social security number, but that won’t mean a thing if he has horrible intentions, right?
But say that a client doesn’t have a reference because they’ve never done this before. Usually, if the caller is serious and really wants to see you, he will sound like it. He will sound like he wants the best for you and will be understanding of your safety precautions.
Another good tool is Google Maps and the Street View feature. When they give you their address, look it up on there and check out its surroundings.
I also listen to the caller’s voice. I’m naturally good at picking up on things in people’s tone and demeanor, but really knowing what to look for comes with experience.
And make sure you talk to them more than once before you’re on your way. For newbies, I like to give it at least 90 minutes from the first phone call to the “I’m on my way” text/call… unless it takes a while for the reference to respond. So it goes:
1st phone call, verification call/email to fellow escort, confirmation call, “I’m on my way.”
The above method will definitely weed out the time wasters!
Question for escorts (or anyone who does sw that is illegal where they live), do y’all feel comfortable putting your faces on your websites?
No way, no how. I don’t show faces in any of my pictures.
i show my face because i stopped giving a damn lol. For my career, I’m pretty much going to be working for myself so no boss to answer to.
Plus, I think my eyes and smile are my best features, so I want to let it show :)
That awkward moment when a guy tries to put his dick in while on top of you and he ends up hitting the side of your pussy. Then he kind of just leaves it there (and sometimes even pushes harder) until you have to reach down and put it in yourself.
and their 3 hour bookings.
Because my regulars seem to be MIA and newbie callers are slow.
Forgot how creative you have to be to get those tips lol here we go
As much sht that I talk about love, I’ve fallen in it.
But here’s the thing: I want to tell him that I love him and all of the reasons why. Then that’s it… done… nothing after that.
Because I don’t want anything to come from it… I just want it out of my head!
It’s eating me alive, keeping it inside.
Don’t pull out any condoms, lube, or toys before your client is naked. A girl I know in NYC got busted for pulling out a dildo after the couple paid her.
Yes, couple, as in man and woman. Cops can come in couples!
I keep my condoms inside a small clutch in my work purse and hide it away somewhere close to the bed.
I’m 20 years old, I’m financially comfortable, and I’m doing very well in my classes.
There’s gotta be something mentally-healthy that I can obsess about! What do single people who are doing pretty well in life think about besides finding someone special (blech) ???!!!
I shop, I have my kitty, I have my bike…
What’s a good substitute for, you know, the L-word?
One of my regulars requested that I wear a black “silk” body suit for our appointment Friday. Umm… how am I supposed to find a silk body suit? I kind of ignored that little detail (lol) and ordered a black lace one this morning… it’s pretty sexy, with a verrry deep-V neckline.
Damn you, expensive Next Day Shipping!
Sometimes it’s exhilarating… being a part of a secret world. A hidden society, not understood by outsiders. A society in which we have our own codes and laws. We walk quickly and put on pretty faces. We welcome the paying members with open arms because they’re what makes our world go ‘round. I call it home, this discreet land. What happens here stays here and I mustn’t go against that golden rule.
But other times, I want the outsiders—complete strangers— to know about me. I want their whole demeanor to change because suddenly, I’m not like them. They can’t figure me out because I come from a mystery… and they’re intrigued. I’m happy, why? I’m proud, why? They’ll accept it eventually, I want to believe.
But for now, I’ll keep this rapidly growing secret inside. But it might just devour me whole.
I find it extremely pathetic when someone does not know how to be single… especially when they can’t even just stop talking to their ex while he’s begging for forgiveness.
Like he slapped the shit out of her twice… they have been broken up for 10 days… and she has been communicating with him all of those 10 days.
Everytime she talks about it, she sighs and says he keeps texting her… even though she told him she needs time. Uhhh how about you just don’t text back? At least for one day.
People used to tell me that I don’t understand because I don’t have a lot of history with anyone. Well then don’t you think I’d be the one with the better judgement? If someone deliberately hurts you, they should feel some type of consequence… am I right? Some kind of break.
Love is dumb… it makes you dumb… it is dumb.